John 3:22-30 (AMP)
22 After this, Jesus and His disciples went into the land (the countryside) of Judea, where He remained with them, and baptized.
23 But John also was baptizing at Aenon near Salim, for there was an abundance of water there, and the people kept coming and being baptized.
24 For John had not yet been thrown into prison.
25 Therefore there arose a controversy between some of John’s disciples and a Jew in regard to purification.
26 So they came to John and reported to him, Rabbi, the Man Who was with you on the other side of the Jordan [at the Jordan crossing]—and to Whom you yourself have borne testimony—notice, here He is baptizing too, and everybody is flocking to Him!
27 John answered, A man can receive nothing [he can claim nothing, he can take unto himself nothing] except as it has been granted to him from heaven. [A man must be content to receive the gift which is given him from heaven; there is no other source.]
28 You yourselves are my witnesses [you personally bear me out] that I stated, I am not the Christ (the Anointed One, the Messiah), but I have [only] been sent before Him [in advance of Him, to be His appointed forerunner, His messenger, His announcer].
29 He who has the bride is the bridegroom; but the groomsman who stands by and listens to him rejoices greatly and heartily on account of the bridegroom’s voice. This then is my pleasure and joy, and it is now complete.
30 He must increase, but I must decrease. [He must grow more prominent; I must grow less so.]
The disciples of John were jealous because Jesus and His disciples were baptizing and they were losing some of their people to Jesus. John was mature in the spirit and did not allow for someone to steal his peace. He did not get jealous. John knew who he was in Christ and did what God wanted Him to do. He knew if God’s purpose for him was over, then he was content moving on.
Maybe we need to take the approach of doing what we are good at. If we are good at being a stay at home mom, then we should stay at home and do what it is we think God wants us to do. Being in a high and fancy career is not for everyone – nor their purpose. We seem to always want what other people have. We need to learn to be content with where we are and with the gifts that God has given us as an individual.